I’m Meaghan, and I want to help you have the pleasurable relationships and sex you want.
No rainbows, glitter, or unicorns…
Relationships and sex are scary; often fraught with bad scripts and fear. Fear that you really are the problem and there isn’t hope for a happy ending (pun potentially intended)? Talking honestly and frankly about things that you avoid or embarrassed about is daunting.
You know you are not alone, but it sure does feel that way sometimes.
You can know that what you are doing isn’t working, and know that you don’t know how to do it different. Books and videos will only help so much. What you really need is someone looking over your shoulder calling out what you doing that isn’t going to get you what you want.
My name is Meaghan Leigh Gosling, and I am a sex and relationship therapist. I am a therapist for who specializes in working with people couples and individuals who want know that things can be different and don’t know how to get there. Individuals and couples who are ready to work with a clinician that will interrupt and interject, not just validate and cheerlead. I am direct, with a compassionate intent. I want to help you change.
I won’t tell you how to be happy.
I am frank, genuine, and curse like a sailor. I will help you find your own version of happiness. I will interrupt you, ask direct questions, and question your thinking. My goal is to get you to hear your own inner wisdom without the layers of influence by other people’s ideas and beliefs.
I highly value diversity and individuality. I want you to know that I am kink and sex positive. I work with LGBT individuals (and couples), gender fluid individuals, and trans individuals. I work with poly, whether it is the bold new frontier or what you have been living; if your a part of an established partnership or individual connecting with others. And these identities will never be the forefront of our work if you are looking for support for anxiety or depression. I also am video game positive, I know the value it contains and the benefits that are often overlooked. And occasionally my pup accompany me to the office.
The way I show up in the room is influenced by attachment work, CBT, parts work, mindfulness, and narrative therapy. When working with couples, I am influenced by Stan Tatkin’s PACT. I interrupt fights, negative thought patterns, and behaviors that are in the way of you getting what you want.
If you are ready to start embracing yourself and learning how to love yourself and others fully, contact me for a free consultation, 707.593.6333. Feel what it is like to work with a therapist who will reflect the support and caring you crave and model that love you can have for yourself.