Healing Your Sexual Self
Sex. Sex has become a minefield. Each of you is feeling less fulfilled and even less capable of speaking about what you want. Stress laden doesn’t begin to describe your experience. You and your partner keep trying, sometimes trying “harder” to make it work, but nothing is getting better.. Is it getting older? Is it the long term relationship? You feel as though you are asking for what you need. Your partner probably feels like they're the bad guy and can’t ever satisfy you. There’s probably at least 3 fantasies that each of you are afraid of sharing with one another. All you want to do is cum together like you used to, to feel that excitement sizzling between you, but now that feels like a fantasy.
You want the pleasure you deserve!
YNeither of your bodies are working the way they did when you were first together. What used to be so natural is now an obstacle. Talking about it only seems to make it worse and frustrates both of you. No one is happy. And no one is cumming the way they used to. Both of you are taking it personally. The resentment is leaking into all arenas of partnered life. You want to have better sex than you are now with your partner.
Let’s re-enliven that spark that use to be in the bedroom!
I help couples (and individuals) who are not having the sex they want to, to learn how to come together (pun intended). I know sex is an important part of relationship, and that the sex you have evolves (not always for the better) over the course of a relationship. Working with me will focus on clear communication and education on how to have the sex you want to be having with your partner. Together we will talk honestly about the challenges and experiences you are having and, with humor and care, find the shared path forward to satisfying sex. With therapy, you can re-enliven the sex you want (or maybe learn how to have it for the first time). I want you and your partner to feel satisfied.
If you are ready to learn about having better sex as you get older or in long term relationship (or maybe just in general, let’s be honest we all need a little help), to enliven your fantasies together, contact me for a free 15 minute consultation, call me at 707.593.6333 or click the button below. Let’s see if we can work together to help you have the sex that blows your hair back again.